Author: CarmA

I think the Beatles got it wrong. I think it’s a great song, but “love is all you need” doesn’t ring true to me. I think trust is more important. Ive loved many people. But that love dies when they violate my trust. It’s usually […]

“ I can’t win”. I’ve always been puzzled by people that need to “ win” in relationships or in friendships, as if life was a zero-sum game. There’s a distinct difference between a person that “seems to win” as opposed to actually winning. It may […]

“Are you ok” ? That’s the first thing I remember, and of all the things I would come to find I was in the coming days and weeks, “OK” was the one thing I wasn’t in that moment. There was nothing remarkable about the day […]